I am a virgin at 33, but have done "everything else". I only want to have sex with my wife as I feel that is how it should be. The first time I had my penis in a girls mouth is the nearest thing to "sex" I can think of. Janie was her name, she had it in for me big time! We went out about 3 months, kissed some, petted some, but never did more than that. One day during the summer she came by where I was living. My roomate was gone so thngs got quite heated. I asked her to "make me come". I was thinking hand job. She was thinking blow job. So there I stood my pants on the floor with Janie sucking me. I remember it being more like me moving my hard-on in an out of her mouth. After about half an hour or so, I started pumping faster. I stood on my toes and remember my lages shaking so fast. The faster I plunged, the more my nuts hurt. She finely grabed my nuts and began to roll them in her palm. Shortly after that I came. My leggs still shaking,I said "can I have my pants?? I am so embaresed." About an hour later we were kissing and she did it again. Both times I did all the "work". I would have to say however my best orgasm came one night when me and Jen were taking a bath together. She was a lawyer and the night she dumped her boyfriend, I gave her her first oral sex. I remember thinking how odd it was that her leggs shook like mine did when Janie had given me the blow job. Anyway Jen and I were in the bath. I stood up and she began to stroke me. It seemed to take a long time so I told her "use some soap". I just stood there and let her stroke. I would tell her "faster" or that feels good", but other than that she did everything. Nothing compares to that orgasm. Nothing! I remember how free I felt, I was not embarased, nor did I care that Jen saw me soft. I do not know if she was being nice, or honest but after I came, she said "what a view." That was the first real orgasm I had. There is nothing like leting someone else do the work. I am now dating a lady who will not even french kiss me. I know our wedding night will be awesom, but I kinda regret everything else I have done in my past, and it has been quite active, yet no sex.