My first experience probably isn't as exciting as some of these completely unbelievable made-up stories, but at least it's real. I had only known this guy for about a week, but we had already come close to having sex about two times. I wouldn't go all the way because both times he didn't have a condom. Finally we planned it so that he had a condom and was going to spend the night at my house. I had been wanting to lose my virginity for quite a long time, and was looking forward to having sex. I had talked to some of my girlfriends and was prepared for a lot of pain. (Which there was.) Other than that though I felt fine. We started kissing and we both were in a hurry, since we knew that intercourse was the goal. I didn't trust him completely because I hardly knew him, but he was actually very gentle, and tried to go slow. We were intertwined and he started rubbing my pussy. I was very wet and he commented on how wet and ready I was. I was kissing him all over and licking his nipples and rubbing his penis. He started rubbing my pussy with his hard-on and tried pushing himself in, but I was tight,so he had to try for a long time. Finally, he pushed himself in and I was filled with not only him but excruciating pain. I think I began to shed involuntary tears when we first started. After awhile it felt better but he knew he was still hurting me, so he stopped before he came. It was all in all a good experience. I was with someone who was concerned for me as well as himself. The next day I went to a Tori Amos concert and had time to reflect on the significance of losing my virginity. I guess that I must be a pretty decent fuck, though because the boy I hardly knew and I have been dating now for about three months, and we don't intend to break up any time soon. Now we have sex all the time, usually twice a day, and it feels wonderful. I strongly encourage people to have sex (SAFELY) just as soon as they feel they are emotionally ready for it. OH AND BY THE WAY - ADAM, OR NUMBER 345, I THINK YOU ARE A COMPLETELY SELF-RIGHTEOUS BASTARD WHO NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND THAT SOME PEOPLE ARE MATURE ENOUGH THAT THEY REALIZE THAT SEX DOESN'T HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE. MARRIAGE MIGHT MAKE SEX LESS CONTROVERSIAL, BUT OTHER THAN THAT, YOU NEED TO GROW UP AND STOP CONDEMNING PEOPLE TO HELL. PERSONALLY, I THINK THAT THERE ARE BIGGER THINGS THAT BOTH YOU AND GOD SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT WITHOUT FRETTING ABOUT PRE-MARITAL SEX. SO EITHER GROW UP OR BECOME A PRIEST - SOMEONE WHO HAS A JOB OF TELLING PEOPLE THEY'RE GOING TO HELL. SINCERELY, SOMEONE WHO MIGHT NEVER GET MARRIED, BUT WILL DEFINITELY BE HAVING A LOT OF SEX